The hardships of the growth part 1

 Growing up my life always revolved around other people all the time, pleasing other people and nursing other people's feelings and always being the mature one in every situation, I've nursed people's for so long and I still get to be hurt in the end,  I love people and I avoid tension with people all the people around me and even if I'm not friends with people I try and become civil with them and some just want to be starting things and people will becoming at you with angles, and not being straight forward when they have problems with you, but instead throw jabs and shade, to think I've set people down and asked them if we have problems and they never admitted but at the end they go in conners and saying shiit about me, like the day I asked you, you could've said you don't like me and don't give me a reason and I'll be out of your way

Ps....later

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  1. Panty Buns21 October 2020 at 15:58

    It can be be very hard emotionally to deal with the selfishness of other people especially for someone who has been overly giving of their time and love.
    It can also make things harder emotionally when people are not honest about their feelings or motives.
    Sometimes the best we can do is to love ourselves.
    People don't always like what I post on my blog,
    but I always hope commenters will be honest about what they think.
    Truth is a virtue!

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